Taking a step back

Recently, something happened to someone close to me, that made me think about things that occurred 1 yr+ back in another perspective. personally, i had thought that what had happened to me last time was one in a million and COULD NOT have happened to some other people, but it did anyway lah.

just that this time, that someone close to me is in a different role as me this time. due to my relations to this person, i had to take a step back to see what are her reasons for doing such things and whether they are justified anot? but thinking long and hard, i still can't see why she does it, and honestly, i'm disappointed by her actions. i've always thought of her as a sensible gal who won't act illogically. it won't be the last time that i see people wrongly either.

don't get me wrong, i'm not condemning her or wat, issues in relationships have no right or wrong. just the way you handle the issues at hand are appropriate anot. i wouldn't say that i like her way of handling this thing, but i haf no right to comment also.

for me, this is another level of detactment and maybe enlightenment and definitely a closure bah. to be able to see things from all 3 sides. having experienced one of the roles maybe made me feel biased towards the other 2 roles, but seeing them being carried out by my friends and close ones really made me think again.

like my frens have said, maybe this is a good thing in disguise leh? well i partially agree lah. this kind of thing is never a good thing but it made me think alot and maybe even mature a little bit more. relationships are never as simple as i once thought they are.

hopefully in my next relationship (provided there are gals who want me), i would be able to apply what i have learnt previously. hope so lo... if not.... too bad lo~ ;P